21 - God, faith, testimony: and the healing of Jolee!
It was early in 1970 and I was home from college visiting my folks in Naples for the weekend. My niece, Jolee, who was about two years old at that time, had been fighting what was thought to be a minor cold when she suddenly became non-responsive. On rushing her to the hospital, they performed a number of tests, including x-rays, spinal tap, the works. The tests revealed that she had contracted spinal meningitis. Her brain had swollen and the pressure was responsible for the coma she was in. Arrangements were made to rush her to a hospital in Miami for an operation to relieve the pressure on her brain and where they would be better able to treat her.
My folks and I, together with my sister, were in the waiting room when we received this news which led to a lot of emotion and crying. Finding myself in the middle of this situation and listening to the crying and the emotion, I was moved to intervene. I stood up and said “We need to put this in the hands of someone who can do something about it”. My Mom, thinking I was distraught or something, attempted to stop me and I left the room. On seeing me leave the room, my Dad followed me and said “Bob, what do yo think we need to do?” I told him that we needed to put this in the hands of God. My Dad said “Tell me what you want us to do and we will do it”.
On hearing that, I said “Go and get Donny and Debra (Jolee’s parents) because if God is going to heal Jolee, they need to know who did it.” My Dad immediately went and brought Donny and Debra back with him to the waiting room. As soon as they arrived, Donny and Debra kneeled and I prayed, asking God to intervene in Jolee’s behalf and heal her. I had no sooner finished that prayer when we were informed that the ambulance was ready to take Jolee to the Miami hospital; Donny and Debra immediately left to travel in the ambulance to the Miami hospital with Jolee. Now I would be remis not to bring to mind the significant element of the story “9 – Prayer, faith, and my sister’s cat!” found in an earlier page of this website.; that is, the role that belief (faith in God) has in prayer. So here it is again.
As I noted within the story of “9 – Prayer, faith, and my sister’s cat!”: I had begun reading the Bible and was aware of the Scripture in the New Testament (Mark 11:24) in which Jesus says “…What things so ever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them”. I decided to do exactly that beginning the moment I finished asking God to help me find my sister’s cat. That’s not an easy task. Aside from the overt doubts that will arise in one’s mind, there are many subtle little doubts that will constantly try to creep in. Constantly. How do you fight something like that. Here’s what I did.
Whether that night, or the following day, on the appearance of the slightest sign of a doubt sliding into my mind, I said to myself: “God will help me find my sister’s cat”. Over and over again; until it disappeared. Thing is, it is impossible to hold two thoughts simultaneously in your mind and, because of this, doubt was unable to displace belief in my mind.
Back to Jolee. I determined from the moment of the prayer for Jolee that I would do exactly the same thing as I did when I prayed that God would help me find my sister’s cat. I set a guard in my mind and at the slightest sign of the appearance of doubt, overt or subtle, I said “God will heal Jolee” (to myself of course). Upon the departure of the ambulance, we headed home and on to bed as it was quite late. Early the next day, Sunday, I returned to Lake Worth
Sometime that day, I received a call from my Mom. She had received a call after the arrival of the ambulance at the hospital in Miami. On the way over to Miami, Jolee woke up and started playing. She said that the Miami hospital repeated the tests performed at the Naples hospital and they had found no evidence of meningitis or the swelled brain. The Miami hospital decided to keep Jolee for observation for a few days to be sure.
Sounds like a great ending but it is not over yet. A related event occurred subsequently that underlined the importance of our testimony as stated in Matthew 4:21 (KJV); that is, that our belief is also linked to our testimony. That evening, while attending a bible study in Lake Worth, I told the story of Jolee, her illness, and her recovery. However, on telling the story, I really screwed up. My exact words were “…and we think that God healed Jolee”. Thing is, the minute the words were out of my mouth, I knew I had screwed up and confirmation of that screw up came shortly after I returned home from that meeting when I received a call from my Mom.
My Mom informed me that she had just received a call and Jolee had fallen back into a coma. Realizing what and why that had happened, I said to her “Don’t worry Mom, I know what the problem is and I will fix it”. Even though it was quite late, nearly 11:00 P.M., I traveled down to Del Ray Beach and explained the situation to some good friends of mine with whom I had worked with from time-to-time in a halfway home for teens that they provided. I asked them if they would pray for Jolee and let their faith and belief stand in for mine. They agreed and immediately prayed for Jolee and I returned home and went to bed.
The next morning, my Mom called and said that Jolee had come out of her coma a few hours after her call to me that night and that additional testing again found no sign of anything wrong. A few days later Jolee, together with Donny and Debra, returned home.
Before leaving this story, it seems appropriate to incorporate a further note about the significance of prayer and belief. Of the six children my wife and I had after our marriage, the doctors declared to us that two of them, one a baby and one a nineteen-year-old, would die before the night was over. They were proven wrong. In both of those instances, God intervened and His intervention was the result of prayer and belief. Those two stories are found in the following pages of this website.
Notes
What is there to learn from the experience I had with respect to the recovery of my niece, Jolee, from her case of spinal meningitis?
Maybe the very first thing to learn from this experience is that God has the last word. Whether it be a life event affecting yourself, affecting your family, or an event affecting the lives of others you know; God holds the final say in the outcome of that event. But that is closely followed by the significance of Mark 11:24; that is, the importance of prayer coupled with belief. And right after that comes the significance of Matthew 5:14-16; that is, our testimony.
As important as the above is, in the bigger picture is the importance of having a teachable spirit as noted in Matthew 5:5; the willingness to learn coupled with a willingness to be corrected. The Bible speaks of the meek; a descriptive word meaning one is humble and not full of pride, i.e. teachable. God was quick to correct me, I recognized my mistake, and God responded to my friend’s prayer and restored Jolee when I failed to maintain a true testimony.
The notes and scriptures associated with the story: “14 – The Blood of Jesus: the Chaplain, the dream, and the G.I.” explains the relationship between us and God and answered prayer. It would be good to review and consider it in relation to Jolee’s healing.
Some Scriptures that relate to this experience
On God’s help
Psalm 46:1 (KJV) “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in time of trouble.”
On Prayer
Mark 11:24 (KJV) “Therefore I say unto you, What things so ever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.”
On Testimony: Note: revealing the good works of God is just as important as revealing good works (done in His name) and, similarly, results in glorifying God. This scripture applies to our testimony of God’s actions in our lives.
Matthew 5 : 14-16 (KJV) “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.“
On A Teachable Spirit
Matthew 5:5 (KJV) “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth”